I highly doubt people just ignored the post. Most members don't just ignore the 'please help' posts, in fact they're the ones many look at first. Not everyone knows what to do in every situation, and 'it looks like it is not doing well' only tells so much.
I don't even remember seeing this new help post... and I read everything

did she just edit your original post? Because that wouldn't bump it up for everyone to read...
Finally, leaving eggs with someone is not something anyone has a right to look down at. Stuff comes up in life, that's just the way it is. I'll be doing it myself this Xmas...
I hope the gecko hatched fine and all is well...no need to be so harsh
-Heather