As others have said, it is late this season to attempt breeding and sexing adult corns can be done by tail shape, but probing is definately the best way to go in my experience, since examining the tail requires experience and can still be wrong, as can popping (if the hemipenes pop out you can be sure it is a boy, but if not - it could be a girl, or a boy that didn't pop).
On the genetics, I don't believe there are any autosomal dominant lethal genes in corns. Motley and stripe are related, and may be different alleles on the same site but both are recessive to normal (saddle) pattern, I don't believe either has been shown to be dominant. The expression of these traits seems to vary considerably with heterozygous (stripe het motley or the other way around) animals that can look as if they were striped. Still a lot to be worked out with that gene.
Bloodred is reported as polygenic, with some reflection of the characteristics in crosses to normals and a lot of variability. It was associated with reduced viability but most of that has been bred out.
Hypo was easy to explain as a straightforward recessive that reduced the intensity of black pigment, until it became apparent that there were more than one type of hypo, as there are two types of anerythristic.
Butter is the easiest of what you have asked about to explain. It is homozygous caramel gene combined with homozygous amelanistic. The caramel gene showes enhanced yellow when homozygous, and produces caramel corns (when amel gene is normal) and amber corns when combined with homozygous hypo gene.
Check out
http://serpwidgets.com/cornsnakes/morphs/morphs.html or
http://www.serpenco.com/ for more info on genetics or photos of corn morphs.
Good luck with your breeding plans for next year.
mary v.