Send her to me. That's the best advice I can give you

But on the off chance you don't take me up on my overly generous offer, here's the basics. 82 warm side, room temp (mid 70's) cool side. Humidity 70+. Enclosure as big as you can offer, 4x2x2 minimum. Lots of structure to climb. The will be on the move a lot. Mine don't use hides, but you should offer until you determine if yours will. I feed med or lrg rats every 7-10 days. When you hold them they will often try to anchor their tail on a part of your body. Not allowing them to do so can cause them to flail and try to get away. Attitude is totally dependent on the individual, but I've personally not experienced any defensive behavior. If I missed anything hopefully someone else will chime in.
OH, and congrats!