I'm, too sexy for MA skin, too sexy for MA skin soo sexy it's a sin!!!

[Terranaut]

Look I know it's tough to be cool about people telling you that you have made a mistake but your snake suffers when they look like that. Obviously you love your animal or you wouldn't be upset about the comments. Maybe instead of getting ugly you should be thinking about how to avoid this and make shedding more comfortable for your snake.
Next time get informed not upset.

[Reptilegal]

Originally Posted by Terranaut

Look I know it's tough to be cool about people telling you that you have made a mistake but your snake suffers when they look like that. Obviously you love your animal or you wouldn't be upset about the comments. Maybe instead of getting ugly you should be thinking about how to avoid this and make shedding more comfortable for your snake.
Next time get informed not upset.

I do love him, SOOO much!!!
And all this made me feel like I am a terrible owner! And that he is living a bad life!!!

I'm all up for information on what what I am doing wrong and what I can do to make things better, but if I am told NICELY!!! it's quite a punch in the chest to have people say iv got poor husbandry, your letting him suffer etc

Saying 'your letting him suffer' does not give me any information on what I can do to help him!!

The way ROGUE627 said it was wonderful!!!

I am quite a sensitive girl so I just need to be told calmly and nicely.

[Terranaut]

Originally Posted by Reptilegal

I do love him, SOOO much!!!
And all this made me feel like I am a terrible owner! And that he is living a bad life!!!

I'm all up for information on what what I am doing wrong and what I can do to make things better, but if I am told NICELY!!! it's quite a punch in the chest to have people say iv got poor husbandry, your letting him suffer etc

Saying 'your letting him suffer' does not give me any information on what I can do to help him!!

The way ROGUE627 said it was wonderful!!!

I am quite a sensitive girl so I just need to be told calmly and nicely.

Saying your snake is suffering is just fact and no need to tell you how to fix it..... everyone else already has. You have spent more time complaining about the way you have been told rather than accepting it and bettering the situation. Forums are txt so there is no "tone of voice".
If I posted a pic of a starving skinny child and said " check out my kid" would you reply with " well your kid looks great but you might consider looking at their diet the seem just a tad underweight". No you would say " omfg give that kid food and get them to a doctor". The later being much more sound advice and you would not be worried at all about hurting my feelings. Right? The people here just want to help the snake out. The best advice you will get on this site won't always be painless. Please just accept it for what it is and don't get troubled by how it was worded or all advice may seem like a slap in the face.
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. So lets put this to bed and get on enjoying our/your snakes in a possitive way