Ive never posted before so i thought id say hey.

[whoaxmary]

Right. As someone who is basically a newb myself I can't help but speak up a bit - and I hope I don't get trampled on for it.
The argueing between memebers seems rediculous. How is anyone supposed to come here and learn when two memebers are going at each other rather than focus on the issue at hand.... Give this guy some advice rather than scareing him off- or else you'll have a hot owner who won't be here reading about other peoples expeirences or be able to learn anything from you. Clearly he has no plans to get rid of his pets, so wouldn't it be better to keep him around so he can learn some more instead of making it seem like we all care more about grammar and personal stabs than helping other snake owners. It would be lovely if every topic could be sugar coated, but clearly with something like hot owning, sugar coating will just make the person feel they've made no error. I mean, come on, even Wayne didn't step on this one cause clearly the guy needs to here it. But he doesn't need to hear any of us go at each other. ;/

[ilovemypets1988]

Originally Posted by whoaxmary

Right. As someone who is basically a newb myself I can't help but speak up a bit - and I hope I don't get trampled on for it.
The argueing between memebers seems rediculous. How is anyone supposed to come here and learn when two memebers are going at each other rather than focus on the issue at hand.... Give this guy some advice rather than scareing him off- or else you'll have a hot owner who won't be here reading about other peoples expeirences or be able to learn anything from you. Clearly he has no plans to get rid of his pets, so wouldn't it be better to keep him around so he can learn some more instead of making it seem like we all care more about grammar and personal stabs than helping other snake owners. It would be lovely if every topic could be sugar coated, but clearly with something like hot owning, sugar coating will just make the person feel they've made no error. I mean, come on, even Wayne didn't step on this one cause clearly the guy needs to here it. But he doesn't need to hear any of us go at each other. ;/

i totally agree with you here, the bickering has got to stop for others to get the advice they require to 1 day save there lives. How is argueing gunna help anyone apart from point scoring, this is by no means a competition. so lets not act like it is.

[sickvenom]

Originally Posted by ilovemypets1988

i totally agree with you here, the bickering has got to stop for others to get the advice they require to 1 day save there lives. How is argueing gunna help anyone apart from point scoring, this is by no means a competition. so lets not act like it is.

hear that shaunyboy? it's not a competition. it's about spreading correct and responsible information.

[sickvenom]

Originally Posted by whoaxmary

Clearly he has no plans to get rid of his pets, so wouldn't it be better to keep him around so he can learn some more

which is exactly what i suggested he do.

Originally Posted by whoaxmary

instead of making it seem like we all care more about grammar and personal stabs than helping other snake owners.

talk to shaunyboy about that.

Originally Posted by whoaxmary

It would be lovely if every topic could be sugar coated, but clearly with something like hot owning, sugar coating will just make the person feel they've made no error. I mean, come on, even Wayne didn't step on this one cause clearly the guy needs to here it. But he doesn't need to hear any of us go at each other. ;/

exactly. i believe i made my point last night. the problems started when shaunyboy and lankyrob decided to step in without reading the entire thread.