Been a way for a while, have a concern

[ThirteenRavens]

I would like to stay nice and all

as in don't rely on someone else to care for your babies when they clearly don't care about anything else...

Don't worry about staying nice...trust me. I won't be relying on her to care for them again.

Her excuse as of late (with everything) has been "I've been exhausted" or "I've been depressed"............preaching to that choir big time. I'm chronically depressed and fatigued but I still manage to take care of the lives in my care regardless of how upset I am. They are literally the only things that get me out of bed any given day.

She said she hasn't seen him wobble this badly, I wonder when the last time she actually saw him was given the state everyone else was in...(as far as their vivs and such go...they seem to be doing ok, no apparent "neuro" issues or otherwise)

As I said, I've been in the process of moving between states and she had cared for them previously with no issues (that I know of...) so I'm not sure why she's having a problem now.

He has finally settled down (he was doing this the majority of the day) and I've covered his viv with a heavy towel to help keep light and the view of me/the dogs moving around to a minimum.

Hopefully he will be ok

[Albert Clark]

Originally Posted by ThirteenRavens

as in don't rely on someone else to care for your babies when they clearly don't care about anything else...

Don't worry about staying nice...trust me. I won't be relying on her to care for them again.

Her excuse as of late (with everything) has been "I've been exhausted" or "I've been depressed"............preaching to that choir big time. I'm chronically depressed and fatigued but I still manage to take care of the lives in my care regardless of how upset I am. They are literally the only things that get me out of bed any given day.

She said she hasn't seen him wobble this badly, I wonder when the last time she actually saw him was given the state everyone else was in...(as far as their vivs and such go...they seem to be doing ok, no apparent "neuro" issues or otherwise)

As I said, I've been in the process of moving between states and she had cared for them previously with no issues (that I know of...) so I'm not sure why she's having a problem now.

He has finally settled down (he was doing this the majority of the day) and I've covered his viv with a heavy towel to help keep light and the view of me/the dogs moving around to a minimum.

Hopefully he will be ok

ThirteenRavens, regardless of how others feel about the wobble you will have to grapple with it in your own way and decide if you want to manage the animals disability. The controversy will remain either way about owning, breeding, and ethics in keeping the spider gene morphs. No one should sway you in your decision if you plan to go forward. On the same token, you should not let anyone tell you it is or it isn't depending on how you feel. Good luck with him.