Re: A question for Admin & moderators
The written medium is pretty much the worst way to have any sort of passionate discussion, face to face seventy per cent ofmthe conversatiom is non verbal and therefore people can readily adapt their own tone of voice, posture and way of speaking to ensure no hurt is caused (or to increase the amount of hurt!). In the written medium it is impossible to do this so we need to all take a step back and read things with a more open mind and the thought thtat if something can be taken the wrong way reread it and see if the person really is trying to attack you. If so Pm them politely and sort it out out of the public eye so that we dont end up with big public arguments.
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