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Originally Posted by EmbraceCalamity
People have already told you they can go 6-8 months without eating and to stop worrying, so I don't see why you insist on trying every week and getting worked up when she doesn't take it.
~Maggot
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You are assuming, Embrace Calamity. One must not assume. I'm talking in the past tense... I have offered her food every week...
in the past.
I'm not so much getting worked up mate, it's difficult to convey your message by writing sometimes. In person, I'm very chilled. On a forum, I write more "to the point", but that doesn't mean I'm getting worked up. Just getting my message across.
I guess when others come on here and say "I disagree" and "they are perfect for beginners", I feel like people are trying to tell me I am wrong. I don't think anybody is necessarily right or wrong, we are talking "case by case basis" here. They aren't right for everybody. Just like most people couldn't manage handling the pack of timber wolves I used to work with a couple years back. It's not always cut and dry.
I'm trying to get others to realise why
some ball pythons may be a frustrating pet for some newcomers to the hobby, as mine was, and why they could potentially put people off snakes a bit.
Example: I did 2 months research and read a couple of books before even considering getting a snake. I did okay when I finally got one, but still had some annoyances. Imagine what a straight nOOb would feel like after owning a BP like mine - somebody who just walked into a pet shop and bought one with no knowledge at all. Then people wonder why there are so many snakes given up, abandoned, neglected or given away... I guess I'm straying from the point here.
Beginner in my mind is something that takes very little effort to upkeep. The average guy in the street (not me) wouldn't think you have to do considerable research before getting a pet snake. Many people would just get a few tank essentials and just get one. Those people are your typical beginners. And those people might have their snake die on them or end up not knowing what to do and giving it up to a shelter. Everyone told them to get a BP, and they failed at it's upkeep. Why? Because keeping one might not be as simple as a beginner
assumes. And that is why I don't believe this is a beginner snake. My opinion.
Like I say, if I wasn't moving, I really wouldn't have considered getting rid of her.
The main reason she has to go is because I'm planning on driving across the country and may/may not be allowed pets wherever I end up next. My husbandry has been almost spot on for a first time keeper... no hiccups, no health problems, she seems to be okay for the most part. You need a stable situation to keep a pet. My life situation is not ideal. Therefore she'll go to somebody locally that I know will take good care of her.
Perhaps also, like has been said already, I was just looking for something different, you may be right. And perhaps I was slightly disappointed in this species. But I've learned from it, and she's alive and okay and that's the main thing, right?
You are all entitled to your opinions, I understand. Some of you have been nothing but pleasant with me, and to those people I say thanks!