One month update, the larger of the two is always out now even though I've had to handle him several times because he'll wedge himself between the door and the fence and this handling hasn't phased him even though he doesn't like it at all lol. The smaller one has become a bit more skittish. They're both still destroying the dubia and I've fed them pinkies once and they've had a couple of anoles that found their way into the house.
The larger one that I'm hoping is male has gone from 15.5" to 17.25" and the smaller one has gone from 14.5" to 16.5". After doing some research I doubt these two are pure VTO.