Cool thanks
Shes actually eating more now that he is outta the tank I think he just bullied her into believeing that the food was his. He'd sit on the food dish or wrestle with her about it. He was never realy mean though so it wasnt as noticeable. I think next time Ill pair her up with a smaller male as soon as I think she is fit for it. Shes more a medium sized and the male considerably larger. He is very gentle, which is why I paired them up, but a pig.
I dont think Ill try fattening her the unhealthy way with crap/junk food maybe I'll add more dried beans to her food.
Thanks again