Taming A Water Monitor

[Taylormason]

I know there are lots of debates and discussions on how to "Tame" a monitor.

I have thoroughly read through all the possible ways and have chosen to go with the "Leave it be and slowly make yourself known" technique.

I don't mean to re-flame a topic that has been talked about alot... I just have a few specific questions!

My question is: If my monitor is never out when I am there...how can it possibly allow me to move up to the next step?

another quick question,

I know I am not supposed to lift the hides...but sometimes he is under the water bowl and I have to clean it...is it okay then? or what should I do?

I know every lizard is different. Some calm down fast and some take time...and no matter what, I WILL love it.

I would just prefer a big content calm boy one day...and I want to know if I am doing it right.

Thank you!

Taylor