my new snakes!

[papa g00s]

Hey all, im new here. I recently purchased a couple awesome corn snakes and i had a few general questions i would like some opinions on. To start, they are a male and a female, both about 2 years old, and have been housed together for their whole life i am told. They live well together and cuddle andi think its adorable! That brings me to my first question. The male snake is much bigger than the other and i worry he might be squishing the female when they are both in their hide together. Something to worry about there? Also what is their general day to day activity like normally? They definitely move from place to place every now and again, but for the most part they are just sleeping in their hides, either separately or together. Temp and humidity are both fine. If anything humidity could be a little higher but im working on it. They dont seem to like the heat lamp either but i dont really know how to tell what they do or dont like. I wanna make sure they arent bummed or stressed or something. I feel bad because i want to try and handle them at least once a day or once every other day once they get used to me, but i dont want to have to pull them out of their hides to do so when they look so cumfy! Sorry for lengthy post, all responses are much appreciated!!