WEll for those of you following here are some pics:
Anyway, she hasn't been eating and has been losing weight. Not from parasites or any other illness, 2 fecals were done and 3 check ups. She ate one cricket on her own a couple days ago, and last night I fed her freshly 'shed' mealies (3) and a cricket. and I plan to keep this up until she puts weight back on or she hunts continuously on her own, which ever comes first.
Anyway, I hope it keeps looking better... maybe it is the weather afterall and soon once it stays warmer she will get back to normal.. because nothing is physically wrong with her and well I am still at a loss...
So I will post some more when I get some more news or improvement.