Vet killed my baby

[panther_dude]

Wow people Im going through a little bit of a rough spot right now. Do i have to tell you every personal thing about my life so I dont get all these accusations. Why dont you think about these kinds of things before you post. Oh no thats right if I do try and tell you these things my posts get deleted,lol.
And secondly Carl C what is up man! I got an xray done at the second vet . And what are you talking about a ruptured egg on the vent? I dont know where the heck you got that from lol.
As for the other reptiles I was planning on purchasing yes I was planning, but because of money issues I did not go through with it. They were a gorgeouse pair of aussie water dragons. You dont even know how hard it was for me to tell my self I couldnt afford them right now, there was also an issue with space, if any of you have seen my cham inclosures you know I am one to think that bigger is better. And I would only have been able to housed them in the min. size enclosure. But what I am happy for them is that they are going to a reptile zoo in Brandon, MB. to be on display in a very big and elaborate enclosure. So when my money troubles are gone which will be a couple months or more, I will tlak to the owner about perchasing some babies.

I actually happen to have a pretty good paying job delivering medical supplies to hospitals and old people and such lol.
So the next time someone says they didnt have any money at the time, I hope you wont bve so quick to jump down their necks.

but thanks for all your concerns

wade

[meow_mix450]

Ok First i better say sorry for the harsh words that i have typed. I might have been a little jerk but everyone voices there own opinion. Words hurt. But if i have hurt you in any way i am sorry. This is my personailty i cant change that. I speak what i think, so what comes out of my mouth/hands is the truth and what i truly think.

Now everyone here has great points. But you also have to remember that this is only part of the story, you only heard this from PD now what if the vet was to post here, he would have a different story. But hes not. How do we know he said that it was going to die anyways, we dont. So we go with what PD says. The point? You cant really blame anyone. Cant blame Pd or the vet. It couldve of been anything. Its better to have a vet to see what really happened, but theres the money issue. We can all say that it had egg bound and the eggs were not calified probly. What is another possabilty is that the egg laying spot was not right. Who the heck knows?

All vets are different some just want money some just dont care. Vets always get blamed for. Why? Well someone brings in a pet that is sick and needs help, the vet trys there best to save it and wasnt possible. So emoctions start to run through the person because there pet has died that is really close. To let anger out is to blame someone, so the vet gets blamed and says you have killed the thing. The vet tried there best to help but was not sucessful. But its a bit hard to beleive that a vet would say that i knew it would die the next day. If he did, wouldnt he say sure ill do the surgery? If he was to do it, he would get more money, so why didnt he do it?Probly thought she might make it and it wasnt necssary.

Wade if you want to know why some of your post has been deleted is cause of many reasons. It was either cause of swearing or it was rude/unnessary. Dragondrop(sp) Has edited the post where i found it was rude, i did not know what you wrote but it was probly unnessary. So please read over what you write. Not being harsh but im just saying keep rude comments to your self and stop acusing of people for saying stuff they did not. Now i hope you have read my post and have read the first paragraph where i said sorry.

So what you read is what i think, and my own opinion and to what i think

Meow

[rocketjawa]

I have been reading this thread for a while and all I can say is WOW....

PD.. Its hard to lose a pet you love, everyone knows that.
But if you cant take peoples comments, or questions about your husbandry tactics, then DONT post here... If you were looking for a bunch of "Im soo sorry"s, you should tell your mom.

You say that noone here knows you so dont make assumptions, etc.. But THAT is our point, noone DOES know you, or your techniques, etc... Everything here was intended to help you until you got all defensive and started acting like a jerk. Good luck getting help NEXT time you want it.

Like I said, losing a pet sucks, but it doesnt give you the right to belittle people who are only asking you questions to try and help you solve the riddle of why your pet died.

[marisa]

OMG You need to RELAX! My post was friendly, and didn't mention you were at fault, then you arte claiming I jumped down your neck?

You either have money or you don't. Having money put away for emergencies means it always there. Period. Again not attacking you, but that's my whole point. A very steady supply of money is needed for reptiles, ecspecially CHAMS! big time.

But you don't seem to want to listen to anyone, even when they are being friendly and helpful like most of these people, including myself, were.

Marisa

[DragnDrop]

Some people take longer to understand than others, no matter how thorough, true or logical the explanations are. In this case, I think we've just about said all there is to say (and in some cases more was said than necessary but those posts have been removed).

We could discuss and debate this until the cows come home but it won't help speed up Wade's understanding of what we're trying to say. It's something that will take it's sweet time. Let's just leave it at that, leave him to his mourning and recovery.

There's a lot of good discussion here, but nothing else to be gained by leaving this post open, so to prevent further unacceptable outburst from certain people, this thread is closed.