Nile monitor (very mad at how he was treated)

[Odynxjules]

Ok, so here's the story, my ex-roomate bought a nile monitor a year ago and never cleaned out his cage......once....except when he moved him to a new one. And never handled him because he wanted ot keep him "on a primal lvl" because thats what he connected with, now I am assuming responsiblity for it for alteast the next 2 years in hopes to make him handle able enough for an actual expert. His name is Odyn, rightfully named I think. But I was wondering if there was anyone out there that could help me with something. He hasn't eaten in the last couple of days because I have been busy in the morning forking and we haven't had frozen rats. and for the most part that is what he has been fed on since he has gotten big enough. If I were to feed him live would that make it so he can't eat frozen again, or would I be able to switch him back when necessary? And if I were to switch him around with food, what would be a good recomendation. I think he was about.....a few weeks old when he got him?

[Odynxjules]

I meant to say busy working, I was typing so fast I wasn't thinking.

[dave himself]

Sorry I know nothing about monitors it can be a bit slow around here sometimes but I'm sure someone will be along soon to answer your question ;)

[Bandit]

I don't have too much experience with monitors, and I've never had to deal with one that wouldn't eat. I feel like you could do that and switch him back to f/t without problems. I'd wait for some other opinions before moving on it, but I don't see it being an issue. They are pretty voracious eaters so I don't think they'd turn f/t down, even after having live for a while.

[Aaron_S]

You'd want to move to a better diet than just rodents. You can try quail or chicks, large roaches or other large worms as some food items. There's various items you can offer up. The best way to gain the "trust" of a monitor is to only interact with it when you need to, showing that you're not someone to be feared by trying to grab it and handle it.

[Odynxjules]

You'd want to move to a better diet than just rodents. You can try quail or chicks, large roaches or other large worms as some food items. There's various items you can offer up. The best way to gain the "trust" of a monitor is to only interact with it when you need to, showing that you're not someone to be feared by trying to grab it and handle it.

Im only doing rodents right now because my knowledge is still pretty limited. would pet stores like petco or petsmart sell something like the large worms or large roaches?

And im guessing what you meaning is just transferring him from one space to another while feeding him and then back to begin with? or for most of his life?

[Aaron_S]

Im only doing rodents right now because my knowledge is still pretty limited. would pet stores like petco or petsmart sell something like the large worms or large roaches?

And im guessing what you meaning is just transferring him from one space to another while feeding him and then back to begin with? or for most of his life?

I live in Canada so I am unsure what your pet stores have down there for feeders. Lots of reptile feeder online stores though you can order from.

What I mean is handling at all. You should feed inside the enclosure, the animal will feel more secure.

[Odynxjules]

I live in Canada so I am unsure what your pet stores have down there for feeders. Lots of reptile feeder online stores though you can order from.

What I mean is handling at all. You should feed inside the enclosure, the animal will feel more secure.

Would it be possible to make him handlable, especially for a vet? if so what would be the best way to go about it. my roomates mom, who has mostly taken care of bearded dragons, has said that when I go to grab them don't give them a choice? what would it do to the lizard if I did that. sorry, lots of question, most websites won't answer them.

[Aaron_S]

Would it be possible to make him handlable, especially for a vet? if so what would be the best way to go about it. my roomates mom, who has mostly taken care of bearded dragons, has said that when I go to grab them don't give them a choice? what would it do to the lizard if I did that. sorry, lots of question, most websites won't answer them.

That's inciting fear into the animal and you'll never be able to work with it properly. Quite honestly I believe in a hands off approach with these larger animals. They never quite tame down but they won't come and try to rip off your fingers.

99% of all "tame" monitors are just stressed out to the point of slow-moving long term illness.

[Odynxjules]

That's inciting fear into the animal and you'll never be able to work with it properly. Quite honestly I believe in a hands off approach with these larger animals. They never quite tame down but they won't come and try to rip off your fingers.

99% of all "tame" monitors are just stressed out to the point of slow-moving long term illness.

I decided this morning that we will try to just find an expert that would take care of him much better than I can. I love odyn to death and would just prefer him to happy. his enclosure isn't the best and it's not the biggest thing but he can atleast move around in it for now. So a professional would be best, the previous owner did VERY lazy research on him and is still attempting it. His owner hasn't abandoned him and we are hoping they will go to canada soon so that abandonment can be claimed. Don't think ill of me for wanting his owner to abandon him but after how he was neglected.....yeah....my reasoning is sound. Do you know if there might be a way to legally be able to make him mine if the owner doesn't wind up abandoning him?

[Minkness]

Depending on your state laws an animal is considered 'yours' after 30 days of care not under contract. (Meaning, so long as the owner doesn't have it in writing that you are only to care for it, but it is still his, it will legally be yours after 30 days).

Again, look at your local laws of 'animal abandonment' before making this decision.

[Odynxjules]

Depending on your state laws an animal is considered 'yours' after 30 days of care not under contract. (Meaning, so long as the owner doesn't have it in writing that you are only to care for it, but it is still his, it will legally be yours after 30 days).

Again, look at your local laws of 'animal abandonment' before making this decision.
there aren't any laws stating that a written contract needed to be made. I have been [aying for everything and they havn't paid me back for any of it yet.....would that count? and no there is no contract

[sirtalis]

Would it be possible to make him handlable, especially for a vet? if so what would be the best way to go about it. my roomates mom, who has mostly taken care of bearded dragons, has said that when I go to grab them don't give them a choice? what would it do to the lizard if I did that. sorry, lots of question, most websites won't answer them.

Would you tame a wolf or another wild animal by forcibly grabbing it? Hands off is by far the best approach to taming a monitor. Check out savannahmonitor.net for care. Even though the site is for Savannah monitors the care will work fine for Niles.

[Aaron_S]

Pay him $30 to make it yours? Only way to make it legally yours without abandonment.

[Odynxjules]

Pay him $30 to make it yours? Only way to make it legally yours without abandonment.

-sigh- I might ask him how much for the lizard, how much do they usually go for?

[MartinD]

I think my first approach would be to say to him "With the amount of money I have spent on YOUR reptile, would you be willing to sign him over to me please?" He may surprise you and say yes ok, which if it was me I would be more than happy to do knowing he was going to be well looked after.

[Odynxjules]

I think my first approach would be to say to him "With the amount of money I have spent on YOUR reptile, would you be willing to sign him over to me please?" He may surprise you and say yes ok, which if it was me I would be more than happy to do knowing he was going to be well looked after.

I just asked them. im going to argue tooth and nail for this lizard ot make sure he is safe

[MartinD]

I just asked them. im going to argue tooth and nail for this lizard ot make sure he is safe

Good for you, keeping my fingers crossed for a positive outcome

[Aaron_S]

-sigh- I might ask him how much for the lizard, how much do they usually go for?

I'd pay $0 for one considering how much care and how large they get.

[Odynxjules]

I'd pay $0 for one considering how much care and how large they get.

Ok, so we worked something out and even talked about it maturly. He made the realization that he was freakin stupid when it came to his care and the fact that he was being to cautious with him. But now that he is in my care until he gets back. I'm glad they didn't bother doing a written contract cuz if they are gone for more than a month in canada when he will legally belong to the house and if I do not feel like he would be fit to take care of him I will not let him pay me back for everything and just pay for the enclosure he built so I can make sure he goes to a nice home after. And I have some ideas on how to be able to handle him without hurting or shocking him. And I now have conformation that he is not a nile but an ornate.

[MartinD]

I'm glad you got it sorted out in an amicable way

[Andy_G]

That all sounds good. I hope it plays out as such and things weren't said to simply pacify you. Best of luck.

[Odynxjules]

That all sounds good. I hope it plays out as such and things weren't said to simply pacify you. Best of luck.
well my demonad of them is pretty simple to let them have him back. They have to have a place to live when they get back, they have a month to get a place. If they can't, they don't get him back. only because they can't take care of him and if they think they can without a place, yeah.....no.....and they aren't going to give him to someone else just to make sure they can get him back.